46. Choose your carriage
Hey everyone. Here is this weeks blog… coming through me, to you-from my guide (at 4.44am!😂). Hope you enjoy
Love Tonja xx
We are here again… hurray for that!!
We are here and we are so excited to be with you and share our wisdom. We hope you find it helpful. We are all loving connecting with you all each week, it is very special.
You are creating quite a stir over here!
We are all loving the connection.
So, there have been some questions this week, but one has shone through with some urgency.
“How can I find my soul purpose”
Can you just imagine us all over here, spending a moment laughing long and hard at this? (Not at you.. just with you!)
Hahaha… we are laughing how humans love to always be wanting this one thing. Any one thing. Find (or fix) this one thing and my life will be perfect. Ah you sweet little squiggly things!!
Why do you choose to make it all so hard?
You know you do that don’r you?
By trying so hard to find the joy you are actually moving away from it.
Think of it as an (almost) invisible energy around you. Every time you exhale in exasperation and desperation you (accidentally) blow away the very thing you desire. You crazy little wolf. 😁
Your life purpose is not a destination.
It is here and now.
It is a journey.
And you are already on the train of purpose. (We are hoot hooting loudly!)
The train of purpose has many carriages.
There is a range. From very very uncomfortable, dark, crowded, smelly, stuffy, noisy… with no amenities whatsoever, to light, airy, joyful, abundant, fresh and stocked with everything you could ever need.
Mmmm…. what a decision!!
You can choose to be in either, or perhaps somewhere in between. (we will come to the point in a moment we promise!!)
You get to choose. That is the point, or at least one of them!!
You choose. Have you even made a decision about that? Or did you get on the first carriage you came to? Or the one your friends are on? Or perhaps the one you feel reflects who you are? (and your worth?)
The good news our precious friend, you can choose to move through the carriages and find the one that is your happy place.
No questions asked.
Just let your wishes be known. (Oh yes, then actually get your belongings and get up out of your seat and move!!…. you didn’t expect us to scoop you up did you?!!!! Haha… you did?)
Your life purpose is living a fulfilling and happy life right? That doesn’t mean that if you are not setting up a school in Africa then you have no real purpose…. hahaha… ah… making it hard again!
This journey is yours. You write your next chapter (with our help if you like!!)
And if you want to do something big, then do it. Of course. Yes, wonderful.
But just by being you and bringing your own unique yumminess into the world is all the special you need.
If you could just live with that kind of purpose then you would feel so happy.
Ah… we know so many of you now are feeling deflated, you thought we were just going to give you the answer didn’t you?
There is no answer! The answer is live your life by doing what feels good to you. That is it. That’s your purpose. If everyone did that the world would be a better place (and we would be out of a job!! Hahahah)
-(That was a big joke)
So, life really is a journey. Get your eye on the carriage you want to be travelling on, and start to move towards it. You may encounter tunnels, there may be people blocking the corridors, there may be pauses and detours (haha.. leaves on the line??!)… but you know you will get to that carriage. But whilst you are getting there you will be enjoying the ride. You feel no fear, no hurry, because there is no doubt that you will get there.
So move through the carriages of life with a smile, with a knowing. And spread your smile . That is all you need to do to feel like you are living with purpose. Because that smile is a winner. It is so beautiful it makes all the hearts skip a beat as they connect to joy too. That is your purpose. Feel the joy within you and spread the joy. There. We got there in the end!! Smiling and happy and in your rather luxurious carriage. Now that is something to smile about!
Go forth and have the happy smiley week. And make it EASY for yourself!!
LoveloveloveR❤️