51. Please forgive ME!
Hey everyone. Another epic blog, coming through me (but not from me). From my guide to you! Hope you enjoy.
Much love Tonja xx
Hello all you beautiful beings
Here we are again, connecting in a moment of time. Just being here together.
We just love being with you and being of some assistance as you navigate. through what can sometimes be a tricky and exasperating experience!
We do hope that our words provide some guidance and strength for you.
This week we would like to talk about forgiveness.. Something you know about. Something you even practice. Letting others off the little hook also lets you off it. That is a magical thing and a big win for you all. We love out when you feel big enough to forgive someone who has hurt you. It takes a lot.
But we something that isn’t getting the same treatment. Forgiving yourself. Perhaps you think you did a bad thing and you don’t deserve to be forgiven? Ah… you funny thing…. nothing that you do or say is ever really that bad. You are doing your best, doing your human thing. And that’s what really matters.
We all laugh. We say you are forgiving others, sending the bouquets of flowers, shedding the tears and putting the whole thing to bed. You are all amazing.
But there is this one thing so many of you aren’t doing. You are not opening your own box of hurts and letting them go. Are you?!
It’s the box of bogeys. Full of yuk and gross. Why did you collect them in the first place? We watch you in amazement…. putting aside a little pain, a regret, a shame, a guilt and saving it up too punish yourself later. When you have a quiet moment. Maybe when things are going well, you open the box of bogeys. Arrhghg… yuk… feeling so ashamed at your own bad decisions. The things you could have done better. The things that were glaringly obvious but you chose to ignore. Hindsight is a wonderful thing. But it isn’t supposed to be a stick to beat yourself with you crazy donkey!!
Do what you manage to do with everyone else. Send it off with love. Know you did your best at the time and that’s that!! Throw the grotty little box away… and never get another!!
Because this old churning over of old bogeys is pointless. And painful. And it takes you back a level too. Over and over.
So, in this moment right now, full permission to let yourself off that hook, full permission to get rid of the bogey box once and for all.
Now you can keep your hard earn level of light, without having to grope around in the dark corners looking for something to feel bad about.
You MUST LET IT GO. You have been told! Loud and clear.
You are a beautiful person. And you have always done your best with the resources you had at the time. And that’s it. end of.
Phew.
Happy? Hahah… we are… and we will be over the moon (literally!!😁) When we see all the bogey boxes flying off into space, never to be heard of again.
The End!
We love you
LoveloveloveR❤️